Why I can't seem to get what I want?

You tell yourself you want to do Action A. You tell yourself you want to do Action B. You also tell yourself you want to do Action C and D.

But ...

But ...

Action A, B, C and D did not produce the results that you want to have. You are back to the same square spot.

Why?

Why?

and lots of why, why and why?

Never mind, it's OK. You tell yourself. "I will change my action. So now I will do Action AA, Action BB, Action CC and Action DD and see the results."

Time passed. Time gone. Still no results.

"Aarrgghh. Why is it like that? Why did I do wrong? Can anybody advise me? I GIVE UP! FORGET ABOUT IT!"

So what did you do wrong?

Mr. John Gray can give you the answer through one of his books - How To Get What You Want And Want What You Have

Personal success is measured by how good you feel about yourself, your actions and your assets and it also requires you to have a detailed understanding of how to create the life that you want.

There are 4 steps to personal success. You need to set your intention by evaluating where you are now and where you want to go. You need to plan the action plan to get what you want by first knowing what is missing. Finally you need to remove the blockages that you have that deter you from achieving personal success. Examples of blockages are blame, depression, confusion and indecision.

For more details, please read How To Get What You Want And Want What You Have By John Grey

Besides the gist mentioned above, you also need 10 love vitamins to achieve personal success.

The 10 love vitamins are:-

• Vitamin G: Love from God
• Vitamin P: Love from Parents
• Vitamin F: Love from family, friends and have fun
• Vitamin P: Love from peers and others like us with similar goals
• Vitamin S: Love from ourselves
• Vitamin R: Love from intimate relationships, partnerships and romance
• Vitamin D: Love from someone who is dependent on us
• Vitamin C: Giving back to our communities
• Vitamin W: Giving back to the world
• Vitamin G: Serving God

Please read How To Get What You Want And Want What You Have By John Grey

Topics such as meditation, stress, negative emotions, resistance and desires are also covered in details in the book How To Get What You Want And Want What You Have By John Grey.

Don't miss a good book such as this book.

What will you do when you are old and sick and without money?

Picture this.

You saw an old man walking around and around the food outlet looking at the tables.

Question: "What is this old man doing?"

Another day. You came back to the same food outlet for a meal and you saw the old man again. He was walking around and around looking at the tables again.

Same question: "What is this old man doing?"

You saw the answer and it pierced your heart.

He was actually walking around and around looking at the tables because he was eating the leftovers by others.

Another day. You came back to the same food outlet and you saw the old man again. This time, he was not walking around and around. He was gobbling a plate of rice given by one of the kind hearted stall owners. The way he ate was as though he had never have a proper meal for a very long time.

Question: "Why this old man ended up in such a state? Didn't he have savings when he is young? What about his family? How come they are not supporting him? Why did he end up in such a pity state?"

Answer: He did not have any financial planning for his retirement. He thought that what he had was sufficient for his old age. But he didn't foresee that something might happen that caused him to spend majority of his savings. And when he reached old age and can't find a job and without sufficient savings, he ended up in such a pity state.

Not many people know how to manage their finances properly. Some don't know how to 'grow' money, they just keep putting their money in their savings, thinking and hoping that it will be sufficient for their old age. Some don't even save at all. They spent all their salary before the month is over.

Because of this lack of education and knowledge, there will be an increase of the number of people who do not have sufficient money for their old age.

If you do not want to suffer when you are old, it is best to start early to do financial planning. Be it if you are in your 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, and so on, it is never too late to plan your finances. Don't wait till it is too late, when you need the money to solve an urgent matter or you need the money for basic survival.

Therefore. I wrote this specially to recommend one book on financial planning for you. This is an excellent view to teach you about financial planning, how to 'grow' your money.

The title of the book is Secrets of the Millionaire Mind By T. Harv Eker

In this book, you will get to learn: -

• Your Money Blueprint
• 17 Ways Rich People Think and Act Differently from Poor and Middle-Class People
• Action That You Should Do Now

Below are some of the Wealth Principles that you would get to learn from it: -

"If you want to change the fruits, you will have to first change the roots. If you want to change the visible, you must first change the invisible."

"When you are complaining, you become a living, breathing 'crap magnet'."

"The Law of Income: You will be paid in direct proportion to the value you deliver according to the marketplace."

"Leaders earn a heck of a lot more money than followers!"

"The secret to success is not to try to avoid or get rid or shrink from your problems; the secret is to grow yourself so that you are bigger than any problem."

"Rich people believe 'You can have your cake and eat it too'. Middle-class people believe 'Cake is too rich, so I'll only have a little piece'. Poor people don't believe they deserve cake, so they order a doughnut, focus on the hole, and wonder why they have 'nothing'."

There are a lot more you can learn from this book! If you keen in this book, the title is Secrets of the Millionaire Mind By T. Harv Eker. Do check it out! Don't miss it!

If you prefer to read ebooks, below are two ebooks that you can also check it out!

Complete Guide to Making Money

Inside You Will Discover:

- How To Achieve Financial Comfort

- How To Add Fun To Life And Gain Prestige

- Learn about the Law of Attraction and how the quantum world creates your reality

- Discover The Fortune Hidden In Your Salary

- Thousands Have This Priceless Gift Within - But Never Discover It!

- Own A Business Of Your Choice With Ease

- 4 Essential Keys To Be Financially Independent And Resist The Domination Of Others

- How To Fulfill A Financial Fantasy

- How To Make A Fortune Starting From Scratch

- How To Dare To Be Rich

- Startling Facts About Money

- Avoid The Most Expensive Mistake Of Your Life

- How To Work Less, Earn And Relax More

4 Steps to Financial Freedom!

This program is for you if you want to know:

- Sean's valuable lessons about his personal struggle from poor to wealth

- The importance of poor health vs good health

- The the secrets on how to take care of your health so that you can create multiple streams of passive revenue later

- The secrets to accelerate your learning process when your body is ready

Step 2 - An open mindset to start learning and practicing what you have learned.

- How to abandon and change your poor mindset, design and program a winning mindset to slash your debt, live free and become financially free

- Why, how, when, what and where to learn to equip yourself so that you can be financially successful

- How to get started and take actions to slash your debt, live free and become financially smarter to create your wealth

- How to get yourself even more motivated for a more successful life

Step 3 - Investing your time in your financial & he in control of your life to create wealth to enjoy a better life.

- Why we don't have enough and the right financial education to create wealth

- How to plan, design and execute an accelerated financial learning and wealth creation process

- Why your health education supports your wealth creation success

- How to enjoy a better life with your wealth

Step 4 - Enjoy the wealth that you have created because you have been taking care of your health.

- How to continue to create your wealth and enjoy it when you are young and healthy

- Why you create the wealth to enjoy and to give

- How and why you want to help others succeed when you have succeeded

Enjoy your reading and you are on your first step to your finanical freedom! Cheers!

Energy Boosters! Yes! Yes! YES!

"I find it fascinating that most people plan their vacations with better care than they plan their lives.

Perhaps that is because escape is easier than change".

By Jim Rohn

"It takes a lot of things to prove you are smart, but only thing to prove you are ignorant".

By Don Herold

"What is powerful is when what you say is just the tip of the iceberg of what you know".

By Jim Rohn

"Most people quit because of one reason and one reason only ...

they decided not to win".

By Doug Firebaugh

"Standing in the middle of the road is very dangerous;

you get knocked down by traffic from both sides".

By Magarat Thatcher

"The difference between the impossible and the possible lies in a man's determination"

By Tommy Lasorda

"Now is the only time there is.

Make your now wow,

your minutes miracles,

and your day pay.

Your life will have been magnificently lived and invested,

and when you die,

you will have made a difference".

By Mark Victor Hansen

"Dance as if no one's watching,

sing as if no one's listening

and live everyday as if it were your last".

By Irish Proverb

"In the long run, we shape our lives, and we shape ourselves.

The process never ends until we die.

And the choices we make are ultimately our own responsibility".

By Elanor Roosevelt, First Lady

"Life is not just the pass of time.

Life is the collection of experiences and their intensity".

By Jim Rohn

Why am I still like that???

Imagine this:

You tell yourself to do this and that in order to achieve this and that.

But ... but ...

An hour has gone, a day has gone, a week has gone, a month has gone, few months have gone, a year has gone ...

Happy New Year! A new year has arrived.

And why am I still like that?

Why am I still so fat? Why am I still so lazy? Why am I still so poor? Why am I still so stubborn? Why am I still so unreasonable? Why am I still so unattractive?

What did I tell myself that I must do? What is my new year's resolution at the beginning of the year? And what I have done to achieve my year's resolution? Now a new year has come and it's time to make another brand new year's resolution? What happened to last year's new year resolution? Is it being shelved aside? Is it being brought forward to this year? Or is it long forgotten?

Do you always have this issue of not achieving what you want to do? Are you a daydreamer who always do nothing but just to daydream?

If you always have this issue or you do not have this issue, i.e. you always achieved what you want to do,

Do watch this clip - The 5 Leverage Points of Success by Stephen Pierce.

In this clip, Stephen Pierce will introduce to you on the ways you can achieve success in whatever you want to do. It is a very short clip, only about 5 mins.

Watch the clip and reflect what you always did.

"Is there anyway I can change and further improve on myself?"
"What is the reason of me not achieving what I want to achieve?"
"How come I achieve my end results so much slower? What did I do wrong?"

Hope this clip will benefit you.

Big Cheers to Your Success